SMALL BALL

[cabbagesandkings]

 

 

Men are accustomed to being portrayed in media—movies, tv, comic strips, and now social media—as clueless buffoons. (And let's face it, many of us are.) We're old doofus Dagwood, or Chester A. Riley, or some variation. We're muddle-headed, always screwing things up while trying to fix them. We can't find the clit. (I can.)

All that's fair game.

What bothers me is when people (men do it too) equate male stupidity with having a small dick. You voted for Trump? Tiny schlong. You drive a big truck, or like to shoot guns? You must be lacking in the penile department.

How does that equate?

And how is it OK? A woman can be an out and out ho, but if a man alludes to the fact, it's slut shaming. (Which is not OK at all. Women should be free to dress and act as they please, and express their sexuality, without being talked about.) There's a bit of a double standard, is what I'm saying.

A male is born with his gender equipment. He doesn't get to choose his size. Some guys are hung, others aren't, and there's nothing to be done about it. Being tiny doesn't make a guy a Trumper, truck lover, gun enthusiast, Republican, or woman-hater.

Most men are average in size, which varies from country to country and even by race; the U.S. average is five to five and one half inches. (Which is what I am, in case you'r wondering. Lol)

Does size even matter? Some women say it does, others run from the really big 'uns. Lesbians somehow manage to get by with no dick at all. Also, a large percentage of women, sex researchers point out, can't achieve orgasm by penetration, or at least have difficulty doing so. Many get off best by oral or manual stimulation.

And how small is small? Opinions vary on that, too.

As the old saying goes, “It ain't what you got, it's the way how you use it.”

Too much about too little, I realize, but I find cock shaming irritating. Yes, I wish I had a bigger dick, just as many women long for bigger tits. But for men there are no implants. That I know of.

Comments

[j3nny3lf]

Now I know your dick size :)

A lot of Lesbians use strap ons. :)

But as a woman who has experienced many a dick in her day, I'd rather have too small than too large. And girth matters more than length.

But body shaming is bullshit.

[cabbagesandkings]

Thanks for the feedback. Yes, you do know. lol But I could be lying. I know about the girth thing. I agree, body shaming of any sort is wrong. I once got blocked on FB by a feminist writer when I took issue with the dick size thing.